John 14:20 – “On that day you will realise that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you.”
All the effort and striving in the world, all the good works and great sacrifices, will not help you to become like Christ unless the presence of the living Christ is to be found in your heart and mind.
Jesus needs to be the source, and not our own strength, that enables us to grow spiritually in strength, beauty and truth.
Unless the presence of Christ is a living reality in your heart, you will not be able to reflect his personality in your life.
You need an intensely personal, more intimate relationship with Christ, in which you allow him to reveal himself through your life.